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Buing a Foreclosure in Winchester, VA

Buying a Foreclosure in Winchester, VA 

If you're thinking about buying a foreclosure in Winchester VA, there are certain things you should know.  Foreclosures can be great buys, and many of them are listed at bargain prices.  But, and there is always a but, foreclosure purchases do have characteristics that aren't always like fair market sales.

  • A foreclosure becomes known as an REO (real estate owned) once the homeowner ar135612838754036.png?width=200has lost it and the lender has taken control of it. Most consumers don't know the difference, so "foreclosure" is often used to avoid confusion.
  • A foreclosure is typically sold "as-is".  That may mean that some repairs will NOT be made.  Lenders will usually take care of any problems that could be considered a hazard.  For instance, an electrical meter has been tampered with and someone could stick his hand inside of it and get electrocuted.  Water, air, mold, heating and structural issues also come to mind when considering repairs that are hazardous.  They may end up being negotiated.
  • Lenders really don't care who you are.  They will not discriminate against you for any reason.  They view you from data on a piece of paper as a potential buyer who they will never see, hear from or get to know.  All they want to know is, "Can you buy the property?"  If they seem like they are being hard to get along with, it's not personal.  When a bank's asset manager has 200 files sitting on his desk, he doesn't have time to discriminate. 
  • Banks who are trying to liquidate their REOs are not like a seller who has to sell.  You can't demand things from them.  Expecting the same level of response time, offerings of closing costs or just about anything else is more than likely going to frustrate you.  If you start demanding things during the negotiations, they will just say, Banker"Next." 
  • Threatening a bank with legal action because they are not responding to your demands will not win their favor, approval or respect.  Again, their response will be, "Next."
  • When you buy a foreclosure, you normally buy caveat emptor.  Buyer beware.  That doesn't mean that all foreclosures are dumps in terrible condition.  It can be quite the opposite.  A bank in California may not have a clue what a house in Winchester, VA looks like.  So, they can't afford to make any disclosures or promises about a property they will never see.  You buy at your own risk.
  • Some banks will work with you on closing costs and some will not.
  • Banks may charge you a daily per diem if for some reason you cannot close on time.  I've seen it go up to $150 a day.  It's best to have all of your paperwork ready, as well as your loan approval done on time.  Make sure you're ready to get busy once the bank agrees to your offer to purchase.  You should already be pre-qualified for a loan before you start.  It's better to be pre-approved. 
  • The less complicated your contract is, the better chance you have of getting the property.  Adding a bunch of contingencies or conditions only makes the next contract more attractive, and banks will gladly accept a pile of contracts before they make a decision.  Keep it simple.  Some things are unavoidable like a final loan approval, but you can skip some contingencies.  Talk to your Cornerstone agent. 

Don't give up on foreclosures because they're more work.  A foreclosure might be the buy of a lifetime.  It takes patience and understanding, and when you're ready to buy a Winchester VA foreclosure, give your Cornerstone agent a call.

Buying a foreclosure in Winchester, VA

What to look for when buying a foreclosure in Winchester, VA

 

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B PASHN8!

B PASHN8! 

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This license plate has been on my Volvo for the past 8 years.  I recently gave my car to my church, and the DMV wouldn't let them keep the tags.  So, I received them back as a souvenir.  Actually, I was thrilled that I got to keep them. 

I put these tags on my car because I wanted to plant an idea in the heads of everyone who looked at them.  Be Passionate!  If there is one word that best describes my life, it would be passion.  I have a lot of things I'm passionate about, and I love to share my passion with anyone and everyone who will come along with me. 

When I first put the tags on the car I found that a lot of people would sit in traffic and try to sound it out.  What fascinated me most was that women almost always got it right away.  Men?  Well, the guys weren't quite quick and they tended to get distracted by the whole spectrum of what passion could mean.  Guys tended to be a little more animal and primal in their interpretation, and the ladies tended to be a little more cerebral and task oriented.  

For me, passion is the driving force that won't let me stop thinking about a plan, a new vision, a method of creating something that I've only dreamed about, a challenge that is waiting to be overcome, a goal that I am determined to accomplish, a deal that is being negotiated, an idea that is looking for wings, a hurdle that needs to be cleared.  It's my fuel for success.  Most of the things I do in life are a direct result of my own personal passion

I've never had a guaranteed income as an adult.  I've almost always worked for myself, and I love it that way.  Why?  Because my passion will not allow me to sit on the sidelines.  I have never been a clock puncher.  There is nothing wrong with that, but it's not for me.  I once had a friend ask, "What will you do if this venture doesn't produce enough money?"  I said, "I'll create a second source of income."  That's what passion says.   It's a power that is hard stop.

My favorite bumper sticker says, "If you ain't the head dog the scenery never changes."  I know that gnawing feeling of needing to break out of the pack and do something bold.  I think a lot of Realtors enter the profession because they are just like that.  They love their freedom, and they love to have the ability to have unlimited income based upon their own efforts.  

Passion empowers you to do amazing things.  It gives you the courage to exceed your own expectations.  It pushes you to take on projects that over your head because you know that some how you will not only succeed, but you will succeed beyond your own imagination.  I am confident that those who are passionate can do anything

There are plenty of naysayers in the world.  But, people who swear something can't be done are nearly always run over by someone doing it.  So, my friends, be passionate.  Have a great weekend while your doing it.

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Is That Coffee Coming Out of Your Nose?

Is That Coffee Coming Out of Your Nose?

Alright, it's Sunday morning and I'm supposed to be in Reston, VA, riding my bicycle at the annual Tour de Cure American Diabetes Association event. But, it's raining, and it's calling for rain on and off for the rest of the morning. The TDC is an annual event that I love to support with my funds and my time, but this year is going to be a bust.

I made a commitment a few years ago to stop riding in the rain. Besides that nasty skunk stripe you get up the back of your jersey when the rear wheel kicks up road water, it can be very dangerous. It's even more so if you're going to be in an area where automobile traffic is sharing the road. One good slip and you're down. Not pretty.

So, I'm using my time to catch up on my reading. Well, I stumbled upon Gwen Banta's ar130727284273895.jpgblog, "Homicide and the MLS (Are you killing your listings?)" post, and I found myself blowing coffee out of my nose. I'm not sure which is more enjoyable, blowing hot coffee out of my nose from laughing so hard or sliding down the asphalt on my back. Hmmmm? It's a tough call, but I think I'll go with the coffee. At least as long as it has vanilla creamer. Take a minute and read Gwen's blog, but do not, and I repeat, do not try to drink or eat anything in the process.

 
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The Sky is Falling! Get Your Bucket!!

The Sky is Falling! Get Your Bucket!! (edit/delete)

The sky is falling, the sky is falling! According to the Chase-shiller index we have ar130704423467847.jpgentered a double-dip economic recession. Clear Capital reported the same thing for the housing market nearly a month ago. Zillow added that home prices are dropping about 1% per month this year. The headline read, "First Quarter Brings More Dismal News For Housing Market." With that headline you can guess where the article went.

ar130704419772927.jpgThe sky is falling! Well, that's one way to look at it, or it could be the biggest buying opportunity in nearly two decades. A lot of people were priced out of the real estate boom of the early to mid-2000s. The escalating prices of available properties made it impossible for them to buy. So, they settled in and started renting. They have sat back, saved their money and now they have enough money saved to buy the house that alluded them five years ago and they have a nice down payment.

For a lot of these formerly sidelined buyers, this market is ripe for the picking. Many buyers overbought in the mid-2000s, and now the real estate landscape is littered with wonderful upscale short sales and foreclosures. It's a buyers dream.

So, for those Realtors who have been walking around with a sad depressed face, I say, "Take that sad face off, put your 'I'm going to be a top producer' face on and get outar130704416533473.jpg there and beat the bushes." First-time buyers and sidelined buyers have the potential to be a major force in this market turnaround.

There is another group evolving in this market. The people who were wiped out in 2008 are stabilizing and coming back into the market. This is a great group to get your investors involved with. If your investors would become short-term mortgage holders that would give this group a hand up. The real risk to the investor is the potential that the buyer may default, but many of these people were swept away by forces other than own fault. They are trying to do everything they can to get back on top of things. The worst case scenario for an investor is that he would have to foreclose. In that case, he would simply have the house he bought anyway. It's a win-win.

ar130704426097051.jpgSo, Realtors, put away that "sky is falling" umbrella, pick up a ar130704429252875.jpgbucket and catch the rain of re-positioned buyers. The clouds are full of opportunities and it's beginning to sprinkle. We can pull this country out of this hole one buyer at a time. So, everyone, heave-ho!

 
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"Virginia was here on this day."

"Virginia was here on this day." 

On this Memorial Day weekend, I would like to thank all of the men and women who have defended this country from its inception to the present day. It is not without great sacrifice and dedication that you have put your lives in harm's way for the promise of a peaceful return to a more simple life. Those of us who have benefited from your commitment salute you and humbly thank you for your selfless acts.

One of the greatest conversations transcribed during war came at the battle of Gettysburg between Colonel Arthur Freemantle and Brigadier General Lewis A. Armistead (a notable Virginian). That conversation is played out in the movie, "Gettysburg." Armistead reveals, in this short discourse, the very heart of Virginia. But, this dialog could have played out on a hundred battle fields since the Revolution. One of the reasons America is great is reflected in the great men and women who have sworn to defend her.

Col. Arthur Freemantle: I'm told you're descended from an illustrious military family.


Brigadier General Lewis A. Armistead: Who told you that? Kemper?


Col. Arthur Freemantle: He tells me it was your uncle who defended Fort McHenry during the War of 1812, and that he was therefore the guardian of the original "Star-Spangled Banner." I must say, I do appreciate the irony of it all.


Brigadier General Lewis A. Armistead: Colonel Freemantle... it does not begin or end with my uncle... or myself. We're all sons of Virginia here.

Brigadier General Lewis A. Armistead: That major out there, commanding the cannon... that's James Dearing. First in his class at West Point, before Virgina seceded. And the boy over there with the color guard...

Brigadier General Lewis A. Armistead: ... that's Private Robert Tyler Jones. His grandfather was President of the United States. The colonel behind me... that's Colonel William Aylett. Now, his great-grandfather was the Virginian, Patrick Henry. It was Patrick Henry who said to your King George III, "Give me liberty, or give me death." There are boys here from Norfolk... Portsmouth... small hamlets along the James River. From Charlottesville and Fredericksburg... and the Shenandoah Valley. Mostly, they're all veteran soldiers now; the cowards and shirkers are long gone. Every man here knows his duty. They would make this charge, even without an officer to lead them. They know the gravity of the situation, and the mettle of their foe. They know that this day's work will be desperate and deadly. They know, that for many of them, this will be their last charge. But not one of them needs to be told what is expected of him. They're all willing to make the supreme sacrifice... to achieve victory, here... the crowning victory... and the end of this war. We are all here, Colonel. You may tell them, when you return to your country... that all Virginia was here on this day.

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Unrealistic Seller Expectations

I loved Debe Maxwell's post "The Longer the Shelf Life, The Less Chance You Have of Selling Your Home".  I wish I could send it to a couple of my sellers (previous and present).  In that post she demonstrated how a seller can inadvertently derail his own sale by trying to stick to an unrealistic price.  I have that same client today. 
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Last year I listed a house that was what I call, "Basic Vanilla."  There wasn't anything special about the house.  It was in an average neighborhood.  It had basic features and no pizazz, but that's OK because there are a lot of people out there that can only afford a basic vanilla house.  No problem.

I receive a very generous offer in  the first 5 days, and I was elated!  The seller countered with a higher price and the buyer countered
ar130641708160531.jpgthat with a slightly lower price.  At this point, I'm yelling, "Take the money and run!"  My seller, for some unknown reason, decided he wanted an extra $500.  Deal over!

He called over the weekend asking me to go to the buyer and coach him back into the deal.  The buyer would have nothing to do with it.  He was so aggravated the just wanted to move on.  Deal over, dead, blah! 


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Now, 18 months later, he has another  opportunity.  This offer is 20% below the last one.  What will the end result be?  A year and a half has past with no offers.  Will history repeat itself, or will he realize that his rigid attempt to stick with his unrealistic asking price could derail another deal?  I'll let you know, but this time I'm going to be a little more emphatic about the deal. 

 

This might be his last best chance to get a decent offer.  The property value has dropped considerably in past year(20+%), and with the current market I don't see it increasing any time soon.   Take a minute and go back and read Debe Maxwell's post.  It should be a must read at every listing presentation!
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Things Your Mother Said . . .

Things Your Mother Said . . .

Most of us have a list of things our mothers said to us when we were kids.  Some of those things came to pass and some didn't.  Here's a short list of the ones I've heard from my mother and the mothers of my childhood friends.

  • Don't go outside without your coat on.  You'll catch your death of cold.  Mom 0 / Kids 1  (Shivered a few times, but no death.)ar130624260544367.jpg
  • Don't climb that tree you'll fall and break your neck.  Mom 0 / Kids 1
  • If you fall out of that tree and break your leg don't come running to me.  Mom 0 / Kids 1
  • Don't run in the street, you'll get run over!  Mom 0 / Kids 1
  • Don't go outside with wet hair.  You'll catch pneumonia.  Mom 0 / Kids 1
  • Put that BB gun down.  You won't be happy until you shoot somebody's eye out.  (Well, I never shot anybody's eye out, but I was never really happy either.  Just kidding.Mom 0 / Kids 1
  • Don't make that face.  It'll freeze that way.  Mom 0 / Kid 1
  • If all your friends were jumping off a cliff, would you jump off a cliff?  (And bungee jumping was born.  Thanks, Mom) Mom 0 / Kids 1
  • ar130624264655725.jpgWait till your father gets home.  Mom 0 / Kids 1 (Whew!)
  • You've got enough dirt behind those ears to grow potatos. Mom 0 / Kids 1  (Not a single spud.)
  • When you grow up I hope you have kids just like you.  Mom .5 / Kids .5   (At least they've been entertaining.)
  • Close that door.  Were you born in a barn?  Mom 0 / Kids 1 (Weren't you there?)
  • If you swallow that watermelon seed you'll grow watermelons in your stomach.  Mom 0 / Kids 1   (And I thought I was just fat.)
  • If you keep playing with it, it will fall off!  Mom 0 / Kids 1 (I'm ar130624280648267.jpgnot really sure what "it" was, but I'm glad to report that I still have all my parts.)
  • Don't ever let me catch you doing that again!  Mom 0 / Kids 1 (Change in venue.)
  • You should go into Real Estate.  I think you would be good at it.  Mom 100 / Kids 0  Thanks, Mom!

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I didn't want to say it, but "Your baby is ugly!" 

We've all had that client who truly believes he can defy the market and list his home for 20-40% over a solid CMA value.  I get one (or more) every year who thinks there is something so extraordinary about his home that savvy buyers will simply ignore the obvious and pay too much.ar130609683135956.jpg

When negotiating with that client you've got to be honest and tell him that "his baby is ugly." Be easy.  I know, it's painful to hear, but it's true.  Then, while he is gasping for air you can give him a list of things that may not make up that 20-40% difference in CMA values, such as:

  • The love that went into the wall coverings.
  • The plants his aunt Sally planted out front before she passed.
  • The living room where the firstborn learned to walk.
  • All of the time he spent mowing, manicuring and improving the yard.
  • The pool.
  • A partially finished basement with convenient drop ceiling and fluroescent lighting.ar130609700765168.jpg
  • The dog kennel out back.
  • The bus stop at the end of the street.
  • The hot tub.
  • The neighbor who got his asking price just a short time ago (five years).
  • The friend who is an expert and is advising him on housing values.
  • Etc., etc., etc.

We all have our own list, but trying to convince an overpriced seller that his price is never going to bring a buyer is like getting a pacifier out of the mouth of a four year old.  It has the potential to be ugly, but it has to be done.  Be honest, even if it costs the listing.

 
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Pay to Play? Show me the listings!

Pay to Play? Show me the listings! 

I've been selling REOs since 2004.  Since the very first one, I have never signed up to sell for companies that have given me listings.  Somehow, they managed to find me out of the 100s of Realtors in my community.  I've always found that fascinating.

 

As the market trended down in 2007 I noticed another trend emerging.  I guess ar130591621894823.jpgthe best way to describe it is "Pay to Play."  Companies started coming out of the woodwork with grand promises of REO listings and BPOs if you would only pay $99, $199, $299 to $499 to be listed on their high octane websites.  Along with the promise of listings and BPO exposure was the promise to put your name in front of 1000s of REO companies and asset managers.

 

With a declining economy, who wouldn't want to be listed amongst the Nation's top REO agents?  One company promised that "they" were the primaar130591627112455.jpgry source of information for asset managers, and for a measly $1200 your name would be at the fingertips of every important REO company.  Another more recent offer promised even more exsposure for $3500.  All you had to do was sign up, and BANG, your real estate sales would skyrocket!

 

Some of these companies will send an unsuspecting agent an email stating that they have a BPO in their area, but in order to receive future assignments ar130591630286793.gifthey would need to sign up.  The agent signs up, does the BPO, collects a $50 check and pays the $199 for the privilege.   Now, I have an MBA, but I'm not a mathematician.  That really looks like the agent just paid $149 for a $50 BPO.  Once the fee is paid, the company disappears until renewal time.  No additional work shows up in between.

 

Well, I've turned over a new leaf for 2011.  No more pay to play.  I had a company contact me last week asking why I didn't renew.  I told them, "I don't ar13059163630289.jpgpay for non-performance."  They immediately rolled out ar130591638284222.jpgall the media reports of how their website was an REO generating machine, but my experience had been "Company $199 / Me $0."

 

I would encourage you to think before you plop down your money.  Do a little research.  See what kind of experience other agents have had with these companies.  I've never had a single company that I work with, and it's around 25, ask me for money.  On the other side, I've never had a single assignment from a company who asked for money up front.

 

If you would like to do REOs and BPOs you can sign up with 100s of companies that don't ask for cash up front.  Jesse Gonzales of REOPro, and Nicole Ocean, of the BPO Automation Group, offer a list of REO and BPO providers, and they include ratings of agent experiences.  You can find that link at http://bpo-companies.com/ .  Kim Knox has also made a list available on "Real Estate Community" at http://www.aareaforum.com/reo-bpo/

 

These lists are good solid roads to more work.  I spent one Saturday morning signing up with many of these providers.  At the first of the week I received 12 BPO orders from companies I had never worked with before.  It didn't cost me a dime to get the new work.  For me, I say, "SHOW ME THE LISTINGS," and then I'll show you the money.

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That brings me back to my point.  I will not pay to play in 2011.  One hundred percent of the REO / BPO work I've done in the past seven years has not cost me one cent up front.  There are a lot of companies getting rich off of struggling Realtors, and I think it's time we close our checkbooks, hide the cash and say, "No More!"

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Small Things to Help With Short Sales

Small Things to Help With Short Sales

A lot of agents avoid short sales because of the horror stories they hear from other agents, and I really can't blame them.  Lenders don't always make it easy ar130571801212556.jpgto navigate the short sale process, but there are things an agent, negotiating team and the homeowner can do to keep the lenders honest and on track.

One of the great frustrations I had on my early short sales was the lender's constant insistence that they had no record of our communication.  On one particular short sale I received bank approval to proceed in a short sale, received an offer and submitted it to the bank.  When I followed up to check on the progress the representative informed me that they had no record of their approval for me to speak on behalf of the owner.   The owner and I sent the paperwork in again.  A few days later I called.  Same response.  No record of the paperwork or approval.  That went on for about 6-8 weeks.  I sent the paperwork in twelve times, and each time they said they had no record of the paperwork.  I had FedEx receipts, call logs, etc., but to no avail.

Finally, I realized that I needed a way to confirm that I had spoken to a bank representative in order to stop the constant insistence that they had no record of my calls or confirmations.  So, I started a different approach with the lender.  Once I established a contact with a lender rep on the phone I requested their first and last name, call center location, and their employee badge number ar130571805251054.jpgor employee ID number.  If they refused to give the information I went up the chain until I found a manager or department head who would surrender the information.  I recorded the date and time down for each call, contact name and ID and the call center location.

That was the end of the constant run around about "no contact" records.  There was no way I could have an employee ID number without the employee surrendering it to me.  That confirmed that I had spoken with a lender representative.  I encourage all of my short sale homeowners to at least get that employee ID information to confirm the contact, and everyone has done that without a single complaint. 

 
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Real Estate is Like a Box of Chocolates . . . 

You know how Forrest Gump always said, "Life is like a box of chocolates"?  ar130565170876584.jpgWell, it dawned on me today that real estate clients are like a box of chocolates.  You know, you've got that sweet couple who you just love to see over and over.  You can't get enough of them, and when the deal is done you continue your relationship as friends.

Then you've got that one client who is like that one chocolate that no matter how many times you try it you just can't develop a taste for it.  Of course, there is ar130565175352711.jpgalways that box of chocolates that is a mystery.  Nothing is labeled, so every bite is a surprise.  You get that nutty chocolate that delights the palette, and then there is that gel thing that nobody can define.

You have your favorites, and you have the ones you like to leave in the box in the event somebody visits.  You know, those chocolates you wouldn't eat on a dare.  There are those that look yummy, but after the first bite you find that undefinable gel stuff.  Blah!  What is that?  There is always that one that brings back childhood memories of your favorite candy, and there is that one that bring memories of your crazy aunt.  

Obviously, I've spent way too much time with chocolates, but when you head off to the office today keep in mind that "Real estate is like a box of chocolates.  You never know what you're going to get!" 

 
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Feel Alive My Friends, Feel Alive!

Feel Alive MY Friends, Feel Alive! 

Have you ever driven through one of those automatic car washes?  You know, you drive up, pay for your wash, you're immediately signaled to drive in and at the appointed place you're signaled to stop.  Once you stop all kinds of things ar130542597865522.jpghappen.  Water sprays, soap flies, funny looking noodle creatures rub all over your car and then the process repeats in reverse.  If all goes well, you drive out the other side with a clean car.

Well, that's the way it's supposed to happen.  One day my wife and I were working on one of our rentals and we decided to take a break.  During our break we went to the carwash.  We were third in line, so we settled ar130542609229205.jpgin to a good conversation and waited our turn.

When the first car pulled out, the second car started up and began the process of pulling into position for the wash.  We pulled forward to second position and waited our turn.  Just about then we noticed that the car pulling forward missed the appointed spot and the lights went from red to green and a buzzer sounded.  She overshot her stopping place.  The car wash momentarily spit soap all over her car and then stopped.

She realized she had overshot the stopping place so she put the car in reverse ar130542742297291.jpgand began to back up.  When she got to the appointed stopping place the buzzer sounded, the light went red and the car wash began spitting soap all over her car.  Did she stop?  Oh, nooooooo, she kept coming back until the buzzer sounded, the lights turned green, the sign flashed "Pull forward" and she stopped.  Now her car is covered with foaming white soap, and she realizes she has gone to far and begin to pull forward. 

This went on for about 5 mintues.  My poor wife and I are in our car laughing so hard we're crying.  By now, the lady has got her car completely covered with soap, but no water.  She hasn't landed in the right place long enough to start the car wash.  Buzzers are buzzing, lights are flashing and customers are crying,  It was quite a scene.  She finally pulled out and drove way.  She looked like a soapy kid fleeing a bubble bath. 

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When she pulled away, I suddently felt a little pressure to hit the car wash just right so the car behind us wouldn't be blogging one day about the goofy guy who couldn't line up his car in the car wash.  Well, I'm glad to report that I landed in the zone and had a nice car wash. 

Life is a lot like that lady in the car wash.  Some days you drive in, stop in the right place, get your car washed and drive away like nothing happened.  It's a vanilla day, and vanilla is good.  Other days you're covered in soapy water driving down the street and you have no idea what just happened.  It's just a blur.  Ironically, it's those moments of craziness that wake you up, shake you real good and say, "Hey!"  You wake out of your routine, laugh at yourself and move on.  And, while you drive your soapy car down the street I hope you find the humor in the whole thing (even though you'd like to be invisible right then).   It's a Tutti Frutti kind of day.  They are so necessary in our lives.  They remind us to feel alive when we've fallen into a life of routine.  Feel alive my friends, feel alive!

 

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Keeping Up With The Small Stuff

Keeping Up With The Small Stuff (edit/delete)

When two people get married a lot of negotiating comes in to play from the ar130533415477964.jpgmoment they say, "I do."  And, it's not always the big stuff you might think that couples negotiate over.  Sometimes it's very small but important stuff.  Such as, which way does the toilet paper roll off the hanger?  Does the paper roll off the top, or does the paper roll off the bottom or does it matter?  What about toothpaste?  Is it OK to squeeze it from the middle, or is it absolutely essential to squeeze it from the bottom to top? 

ar130533430556377.jpgWhat about unloading the dishwasher?  My wife has often offered to hold a family class on how to open the dishwasher door.  It appears that the males in the family (1 old one, 2 young ones, and 1 male dog) don't seem to have that process figured out yet.  But, it's not just loading it, what about unloading it?  Whose responsible for unloading it?  And then there's laundry.  Who is responsible for putting the laundry away?  Is it always mom, or should other more testosterone laiden types get involved too?

Little things.  It's the little things that make a marriage work along with the big things.  It's also the little things that make a business work.  I don't remember how many times I've called a business colleague only to leave a message that is never returned.  Sometimes, it's a little thing, but like a marriage, it is often the little things that cause so much stress.  It's irritating to call, email and text colleagues only to have them ignore or not respond.  So, what's the solution?  Well, you could leave the clothes piled up in the laundry room until you have nothing left in your closets or drawers, or you could actually call again, email or send a text.  How do we deal with little things?

I think the best response for us is to not let the little things get us down.  That can be a battle though. This morning I was talking to a good friend who is a physician.  She was telling me she ar130533356703386.jpgwould like to get out of the business.  Why?  She said the real joy she has in her work is in the patient's room.  That's where she wants to spend all of her time.  She is a wonderful physician, and it would be awful to lose her, but I do understand her dilemma. She went on to say that when she leaves the patient and closes the door behind her there is all of this stuff that hits her right in the face.  She doesn't like the little stuff.  She doesn't want to look at the books, or coordinate cleaning crews or repairmen and she frets over the people that work with her who are depending on her for their livlihood.  That may not sound like little stuff, but it's a bunch of little stuff combined to seem like big stuff.

Little stuff.  It follows us around everyday.  A tail light is out.  A kid forgets his lunch.  The car is low on gas.  The dog throws up just as you're about to walk out the door, and you're already late for a meeting.  Your computer locks up when you're dazzling a potential client with a presentation.  How do we deal with the little stuff?  Do we return phone calls?  Do we send notes, call past ar130533364898224.jpgclients, keep our files in order and follow up with vendors and contractors? 

My life is full of little stuff.  I do pretty good with it for the most part, but sometimes it gets away from me, and that's when I find my self scrambling to catch up.  Like my physician friend, I don't like that side of business.  I like flowing along on a sea of glass with everything falling into place, all meetings kept, and kept on time and every detail complete.  When I snap out of my dream I'm reminded that this is real life, and stuff happens.

So, here's a short list of things I do (or like to do when I remember) to keep up with the little stuff:

  • Make lists of tasks for the day ( I love to check things off)
  • Make lists of things that are going to need to be done over the next week, month, year, etc.  Make sure dates and times are included.  I love Outlook for that feature.
  • Keep a journal of every phone call, email and text.  Note what needs to be responded to right away, and note what can wait until later and make a notation to remind you to follow-up.
  • Keep your files filed.
  • Establish a file system that works foryou.  Mine may not work for you and visa versa.  Find a file system that makes you efficient.ar13053341218374.jpg
  • Move dead files to an out of the way place where you can get to them, but they're not in the way.
  • Stay in touch with your clients; email, text, phone call, whatever.
  • Educate yourself on your profession.  Are there better more efficient ways to do business (absolutely, always).
  • Look for ways to cut down on tasks.  For instance, some software will do things for you on an automated schedule.  Use every tool you can find to help you cut down on little stuff.
  • Keep an eye on that co-worker who annoys you with her stunning efficieny.  She may have a thing or two you can learn.  Ask her how she makes work looks so easy.  She would probably love to tell you.  People love to talk about themselves.
  • Subscribe to forums like, well, Active Rain, where you can learn from some of the best brainiacs in the business. 
  • Get enough food for energy, and get enough sleep to restore you body and miar130533393064937.jpgnd for each day.
  • Relax.  Kick off your shoes, watch a movie, take the dog for a walk, take a bike ride or a swim, call an old friend, read a book, look at photo albums, you get the idea - get away from work.
  • And most of all, put that toilet paper roll on so the paper comes off the top!

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Keeping Up With The Small Stuff

Keeping Up With The Small Stuff (edit/delete)

When two people get married a lot of negotiating comes in to play from the ar130533415477964.jpgmoment they say, "I do."  And, it's not always the big stuff you might think that couples negotiate over.  Sometimes it's very small but important stuff.  Such as, which way does the toilet paper roll off the hanger?  Does the paper roll off the top, or does the paper roll off the bottom or does it matter?  What about toothpaste?  Is it OK to squeeze it from the middle, or is it absolutely essential to squeeze it from the bottom to top? 

ar130533430556377.jpgWhat about unloading the dishwasher?  My wife has often offered to hold a family class on how to open the dishwasher door.  It appears that the males in the family (1 old one, 2 young ones, and 1 male dog) don't seem to have that process figured out yet.  But, it's not just loading it, what about unloading it?  Whose responsible for unloading it?  And then there's laundry.  Who is responsible for putting the laundry away?  Is it always mom, or should other more testosterone laiden types get involved too?

Little things.  It's the little things that make a marriage work along with the big things.  It's also the little things that make a business work.  I don't remember how many times I've called a business colleague only to leave a message that is never returned.  Sometimes, it's a little thing, but like a marriage, it is often the little things that cause so much stress.  It's irritating to call, email and text colleagues only to have them ignore or not respond.  So, what's the solution?  Well, you could leave the clothes piled up in the laundry room until you have nothing left in your closets or drawers, or you could actually call again, email or send a text.  How do we deal with little things?

I think the best response for us is to not let the little things get us down.  That can be a battle though. This morning I was talking to a good friend who is a physician.  She was telling me she ar130533356703386.jpgwould like to get out of the business.  Why?  She said the real joy she has in her work is in the patient's room.  That's where she wants to spend all of her time.  She is a wonderful physician, and it would be awful to lose her, but I do understand her dilemma. She went on to say that when she leaves the patient and closes the door behind her there is all of this stuff that hits her right in the face.  She doesn't like the little stuff.  She doesn't want to look at the books, or coordinate cleaning crews or repairmen and she frets over the people that work with her who are depending on her for their livlihood.  That may not sound like little stuff, but it's a bunch of little stuff combined to seem like big stuff.

Little stuff.  It follows us around everyday.  A tail light is out.  A kid forgets his lunch.  The car is low on gas.  The dog throws up just as you're about to walk out the door, and you're already late for a meeting.  Your computer locks up when you're dazzling a potential client with a presentation.  How do we deal with the little stuff?  Do we return phone calls?  Do we send notes, call past ar130533364898224.jpgclients, keep our files in order and follow up with vendors and contractors? 

My life is full of little stuff.  I do pretty good with it for the most part, but sometimes it gets away from me, and that's when I find my self scrambling to catch up.  Like my physician friend, I don't like that side of business.  I like flowing along on a sea of glass with everything falling into place, all meetings kept, and kept on time and every detail complete.  When I snap out of my dream I'm reminded that this is real life, and stuff happens.

So, here's a short list of things I do (or like to do when I remember) to keep up with the little stuff:

  • Make lists of tasks for the day ( I love to check things off)
  • Make lists of things that are going to need to be done over the next week, month, year, etc.  Make sure dates and times are included.  I love Outlook for that feature.
  • Keep a journal of every phone call, email and text.  Note what needs to be responded to right away, and note what can wait until later and make a notation to remind you to follow-up.
  • Keep your files filed.
  • Establish a file system that works foryou.  Mine may not work for you and visa versa.  Find a file system that makes you efficient.ar13053341218374.jpg
  • Move dead files to an out of the way place where you can get to them, but they're not in the way.
  • Stay in touch with your clients; email, text, phone call, whatever.
  • Educate yourself on your profession.  Are there better more efficient ways to do business (absolutely, always).
  • Look for ways to cut down on tasks.  For instance, some software will do things for you on an automated schedule.  Use every tool you can find to help you cut down on little stuff.
  • Keep an eye on that co-worker who annoys you with her stunning efficieny.  She may have a thing or two you can learn.  Ask her how she makes work looks so easy.  She would probably love to tell you.  People love to talk about themselves.
  • Subscribe to forums like, well, Active Rain, where you can learn from some of the best brainiacs in the business. 
  • Get enough food for energy, and get enough sleep to restore you body and miar130533393064937.jpgnd for each day.
  • Relax.  Kick off your shoes, watch a movie, take the dog for a walk, take a bike ride or a swim, call an old friend, read a book, look at photo albums, you get the idea - get away from work.
  • And most of all, put that toilet paper roll on so the paper comes off the top!

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The Short Sale Boomerang!

The Short Sale Boomerang! 

I'm starting to see a boomerang affect from the high volume of short sales in our area.  I recently had a client who wanted to buy a property.  I met with him and his wife, and I had them get prequalified with their lender and they qualified for a nice ar130524376771945.jpgproperty.  Off we went in our search, and after a couple weeks we found a great house.

 

The only issue with this house was that it was an REO and required a certain lender do the pre-qual before the seller ar130524400649874.jpgwould consider a contract.  So, I sent my buyers off to a friend who worked at that lender with the expectation that they would be back shortly with another prequalification letter.  It would be easy since they had already been prequalified, right?  That's what I thought, anyway.

 

After the interview, the lender called and asked how much my clients had shared with me about their financial history.  They had only discussed what their bank said in their original pre-qual letter.  The lender couldn't share their personal information because of confidentiality, but with their approval, she told me that they had a short sale last ar130524408540649.jpgyear.  In the days that followed, I confirmed that my buyers had done a short sale the year before.  When asked what led to the short sale they explained that they didn't like their neighborhood or the trend it was following, and they wanted to move out of it so their children wouldn't grow up there

 

Wow!  That was information that needed to be shared up front in the beginning of our interview process.  Later, I emailed them to get the name and number of the lender that had prequalified them prior to our visit with the second lender.  I'm still waiting on that info three weeks later.  That experience has made me a little more cautious about taking someone at his/her word.  I know it's necessary to trust, but I believe I will need to start a "trust, but verify" policy with new clients. 

 

"Short sales for convenience" are going to catch a lot of people off guard when they start their next property search.  There are ways to buy when you've had a short sale recently, but it will likely be with investor tactics and not through ar130524432511831.jpgFHA.  People who are contemplating a short sale should be advised that short sales are not a "get out of jail free" card.  When a seller is trying to balance the options and a short sale is considered we need to be completely honest with them if it's not a true hardship situation.  Choices have consequences. A short sale may be the only route some sellers can take, but it should never be used to blow off a mortgage commitment that is not a hardship situation.  IMHO.

 
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Someday, Your Kids Will Think . . .

Someday, Your Kids Will Think . . .

No matter how successful and accomplished you are, or how many degrees you earn, or how widely respected in the community you are, at some point in your ar130478280708752.jpglife your kids will think you're a goober.  I remember growing up watching my mom as technology began to make very rapid advances, and she was totally unaware of them.  So, whenever conversation turned to the latest technological advances her contributions to conversation were often classic. 

But, it doesn't have to be technology that gets us parents that broad smile from our children.  It can be something very simple.  This week I was grocery shopping.  I love cookies, and my favorite cookies were on sale.  Each pack was $1.00.  Wow!  One dollar seemed like a steal for the extra yummyar130478293233562.jpg cookies.  So, I loaded up a few packages of cookies, and then I noticed a little sale sign that said 5/$5.  Wow!  Another great deal!  I can buy one for $1 or I can buy 5 for $5. 

ar130478285165928.jpgIn my totally unconsious state, I loaded five into my cart and headed to the checkout.  About two isles over I had an "ah ha" experience.  Wait!  One for $1 is the same as 5 for $5.  Ding!  A goober moment.  I could have taken them back and only purchased what I really wanted, but I really wanted all of them.  So, I checked out and headed home. 

Of course my lovely wife couldn't wait to tell my sons about the great deal I got on cookies.  And, in that brief moment, I was no longer the brilliant accomplished business owner.  I was the "goober" dad they have come to love.  It was OK.  Actually, I laughed first and thought the same thing about me.

If this has happened to you don't fret.  It's a stage of life I call "Mental Pause."  All of us go through it at some point.  It's not terminal, it will pass and you'll be back to normal.  At least until the next moment when you have a bout of "Mental Pause."

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You Might Be A Realtor, If . . .

You Might Be A Realtor, If . . . (edit/delete)

During a recent real estate class I realized that Realtors speak in code.  As I watched the poor newbies in that class I wondered if they felt like they had ar130468742231915.jpgfallen into a black hole and popped up in some foreign land where they didn’t speak the language.  Those of us who were experienced in the field rattled off conversation that left the new realtors looking bewildered and lost.                 
                   
This revelation led me down one of those spontaneous rambling thought processes that often leads to my blog posts, and it looked something like this:

●    You might be a Realtor if your dining room table doubles as a desk.
●    You might be a Realtor if your car cigarette lighter doubles as a charging station for your laptop or Ipad, Smartphone, GPS, etc.               
●    You might be a Realtor if your idea of a short sale is a contract that ratified in 12 hours or less.
●    You might be a Realtor if your broker is your first emergency contact.
●    You might be a Realtor if you have a wireless printer stored in your car trunk.
●    You might be a Realtor if you have a vanity license plate that says BUYNOW, combined with a window decal “www.SuperRealtor.com.”
●    You might be a Realtor if your first child’s initials are EMD.   
ar130468817529795.jpg●    You might be a Realtor if you’ve learned to put on eye shadow, eat a sandwich and set up your next appointment while driving down the highway.
●    You might be a Realtor if you’re an REO Specialist with no foreclosure experience.
●    You might be a Realtor if your sales team includes your spouse, kids and the
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●    You might be a Realtor if the string of initials after your name would make a PhD green with envy.       
●    You might be a Realtor if your Christmas cards include a business card.
●    You might be a Realtor if every up or down real estate news feed inspires you to post, “It’s a great time to buy.”
●    You might be a Realtor if you have interchangeable sign riders that say, “It’s a buyer’s market. Buy today!” or “It’s a seller’s market. Sell today!”
●    You might be a Realtor if you have mastered the art of describing a pole barn as “Beautiful country setting, spacious property with plenty of room to expand and wonderful views of wildlife.”
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●    You might be a Realtor if every listing description ends with “This won’t last long.  Act today!”

You get the idea.  So, what would be on your “You might be a Realtor” list?


 
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Are We Falling Apart?

Are We Falling Apart? (edit/delete)

Is it just me or are we as Americans falling apart?  I've noticed a trend on TV lately that has me a little worried.  Let me give you an example.  There is a commercial of a middle-aged lady who can't find her car in a parking lot because she can't remember where she parked it.  Been there, how about you?  ar130446270467597.jpgFortunately for her there is a wonderful company that has created a miniature digital recorder she can carry on her key-chain, and if she remembers to record her location before she leaves her car, bingo!  Problem solved.

In another commercial, I saw that same lady, but this time she couldn't hear.  In this commercial she got another small device, I believe it was called "Loud and Clear,” that helped her listen to her pastor, and birds and even her TV while her husband sleeps soundly beside her.  It looks a lot like a cell phone wireless earpiece.  So it blends right in, in bed.   I did find it a little strange in the same commercial that the same lady was walking around in the woods looking at nature while a guy is hunting nearby who also can't hear without the device.  That really seemed like a scenario for disaster, but I digress.

It didn't stop there.  The same lady shows up in another commercial unable to
ar13044633440283.jpgcut paper on a straight line.  She was so bad with scissors that she had to be isolated in a separate room on craft day.  So, some brilliant company created a cutter just for her.   So now, she can find, hear and join the happy crafters on craft day.  Oh, but her tale of needs weren’t over yet.  She eventually she took to farming.  Yep!  She's growing tomatoes.  Upside-down!  On the porch.  But, here again, she doesn’t know how to water them.  So, another clever company made a ball with a spike attached that automatically keeps her tomatoes watered.  And, if you’re horticulturally challenged, this is your ticket!

Her life is obviously full of challenges because eventually she started having trouble getting out the car that she can't always find without her little digital recorder.  Another entrepreneurial sort inventor created a little round swivel block that gives her the ability to rotate on her seat and out the door she goes.  Best of all, she never wrinkles her slacks.

Just when you think technology has done just about everything they can for her
ar130446302471601.jpgshe realizes she can't sit on the sofa and watch her favorite movie without having body parts exposed to the elements.  What woman likes cold toes?  Or, if her toes are warm toes her shoulders are cold.  So, Snuggie created the ultimate comfort item for her, a human sized fleece bag.  Now, she's nice and toasty.

I have a feeling one of these nights I'm going to see her snuggled up on the sofa staring at her favorite show, and then the announcer will break in and tell the consumer that she would enjoy her favorite show more if she could hear it.  But, she forgot her little digital hearing device that she was wearing at her craft class.  If she could just remember that she got two little digital hearing devices for just $19.95 because they doubled her order when she called right away.  But all is not lost.  She can rotate off the sofa, find the zipper on her Snuggie she can use her new cutting tool to slice her tomatoes and have a nice snack while she looks for her extra hearing device she got with separate shipping.  Like I said, I’m a little worried about us as a country, but I do see a lot of opportunities for witty inventors on the horizon. 

 

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60 Seconds! What Would You Grab?

60 Seconds! What Would You Grab? (edit/delete)

My life is full of phone calls, meetings, appointments, contracts, leases, emails, returned phone calls, more emails,  deadlines, etc., etc., . . . you get the picture.ar130420334471945.jpg  It's probably a lot like yours.  I was just thinking, "What would I do if I had nothing to do?"  What a wonderful question to ponder.  I need to spend more time thinking about that one because I definitely think it's worth exploring .

ar130420318126449.jpgThat made me think of another question I heard in a movie last year.  In the movie, "Leap Year" Matthew Goode (Declan) asks Amy Adams (Anna) what she would grab if she only had 60 seconds to escape a burning building.  Hmmm, what would I grab?  Now, I'm assuming that is knowing that the family and the dog are all safe and away from the fire. 

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What would I grab?  I don't think it would be my files, lead lists, smartphone or laptop, digital camera, storage media, etc., but what would it be?  I'll have to admit I'm a little stumped.  Once my family and the dog are safe there isn't much else that would rise to that critical level.  With online backup programs, dropbox and other resources where a tech savvy modern business person can keep important documents, photos and contact lists, and so on, there isn't much I would need to be back up and running in a day or so.

So, I pose the question to you.  If you only had 60 seconds to escape a burning building what would you grab on the way out? 

 

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Reflections in the Mirror

Reflections in the Mirror (edit/delete)


 

While catching up on my blog reading I had a thought.  Of course blog reading should conjure up all kinds of thoughts or you're wasting your time, but this was an "outside of the blog reading" thought.  Or ar130144283996644.jpgat least I think it was.  It doesn't matter. It went something like this, "Are we attracted to people who are like us, or do the people who are like us feel an attraction to us?" 

I've had a lot of people involved in my life over the past . . . . well, good while.  One of the consistent things about the people who end up closest to me is that they tend to be pretty smart, funny, clever and witty.  I'd like to think that's because they are a reflection of me, but is that the way it is?  Regardless, do I gravitate to them, or do they gravitate to me?  Or, do we meet somewhere in the middle by chance? 

ar130144203882696.jpgIf you've ever watched Winnie-the-pooh you know the character Eeyore.  Personally, I like Eeyore, but I've always wondered why he seems so, well, Eeyorish.  He has all these great friends around him that are full of life and energy, and yet, it doesn't seem to bring him up or cause dancing and singing.  I guess he just has an Eeyore kind of personality.  ar130144214122789.jpg

In my life, I don't have many Eeyores.  Most of my friends, family, associates, cellmates (OK, I just threw that in there to see if you were still reading) and clients tend to be more Winnie-the-Pooh, Tigger and Piglet than Eeyore.  Of course I get an occasional Eeyore, but I noticed that if they are like Eeyore that they are either smart, funny, clever or witty or some combination of them all.  If they're smart and Eeyorish, I can deal with it because I learn something.  If they're clever and Eeyorish, I can deal with it because they catch me off guard and make me think.  If they are witty or funny and Eeyorish, I laugh and find them amusing.  But, if they are none of these things, I find them draining.  Is that because they are not like me, or because I'm not like them?

I go back to my original question, "Are we attracted to people who are like us, or do the people who are like us feel an attraction to us?" Now, the tricky part.  Are the people who are attracted to you more like Winnie-the-Pooh, Tigger or Piglet, or are they more like Eeyore?  I hesitate to use the word "vibes", but are the vibes that emanate from you attracting the people you want to attract?  If there is a big dark cloud outside your front door I have a feeling Eeyore is rounding the bend.  But, if the sun is shining and there is singing and dancing going on you might be attracting a Pooh, Tigger or Piglet.  They all have something to offer your life, but if you're a Tigger kind of character too many Eeyores will wear you down.ar130144270873031.jpg

If you're a Eeyore kind of character Tigger will get annoying eventually.  Knowing which character you are will help you understand what kind of characters you will attract.  If you're in business and you're an Eeyore character, you may have to put on your Tigger face during interactions to keep customers coming back.  Remember, Eeyore wasn't under a cloud all the time.  Sometimes he was Eeyore, but no cloud. 

One final thought.  There is a 3 to 1 ratio at Pooh-ville.  That is probably a good ratio in your life if you're going to be healthy, happy and balanced.  You can only have so many Eeyores in your life before they start bringing you down.  On the flip side, if you're an Eeyore, you need to surround yourself with Poohs, Tiggers and Piglets to help bring a little extra sunshine to your life.  All four personalities can work together, but knowing which character you're most like will help you determine who you need to spend more time with. 


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